My Sunshine

Please Read

2010-02-26T13:10:00.003-05:00

Please take just ONE second to click on this link and vote. I am begging!!!!

These people have made Gavin's House a reality now help them! They are in 9th place and need to get to at least 2nd.

http://www.refresheverything.com/ErinsDream

Yesterday, Today & Tomorrow

2010-01-11T10:00:00.005-05:00

Yesterday I...

stayed in my PJ's until 4PM and was back in my PJ's by 8PM
had fun hanging out with my brother all day (he stayed the weekend)
went to a family gathering at my Aunts house to celebrate January birthday

Today I....

am home sick from work and have a doctors appointment at 3:15
will read more of The Historian
am thankful for a warm house and a doting husband

Tomorrow I....

will celebrate my hubbys 29th birthday!
finish up plans for my hubbys party on Saturday
hopefully be on some meds and back at work

Hate/Love

2010-01-07T07:56:00.004-05:00

I hate...

How my butt looks amazing when I'm at my heaviest. If I loose the weight then its bubye buttocks - hello extra long back
The crazy cold wind that has been around for the past month
How my eyebrows are outta control right now - I need to get better about getting them waxed regularly
When people can't give straight answers when making plans - a yes or no is all I need
Being on one income, 'nuff said

I love...

My hair style. Its requires a cut every three weeks but its deff worth it
Megadeaths new album - Endgame
This book I'm reading - The Historian. This book is so addicting, I cant put it down!
The snow that's been falling every few days - love it!
My new blog background - I think I'm gonna keep it for a while

Your turn! Leave me a comment with one Hate and one Love

Snoozzie

2010-01-04T10:39:00.005-05:00

It’s the first Monday/work day of 2010. Guess how I started my day off?

5:30 am BEEP BEEP BEEP BEEP

SLAP!

5:39 am BEEP BEEP BEEP BEEP

SLAP!

5:48 am BEEP BEEP BEEP BEEP

SLAP!

That went on for about 50 minutes longer than it should have.

Well I’m at work now so it’s all good.

One thing that’s kinda annoying is the people at work who are complaining to me that their vacation was too short blah blah blah...

You know what? I was here doing YOUR work while you were home with your family so suck it.

That’s all for today – Happy first Monday of 2010!

***I'm really not cranky today - just feeling a little sarcastic that's all :)

Tonight...

2009-12-31T17:08:00.001-05:00

Tonight its all about the Jersey Shore earrings...

Can I get a fist pump?

Have a Happy New Year

Be safe

Much Love,

Heather

Fists Flying

2009-12-28T21:01:00.005-05:00

Saturday night we went to a hardcore/metal show in Philly...

...that would be me...at 2 am, sweaty, adrenalin pumping, ears bleeding, sore throat and loving every minute damn of it.

Sometimes, after life's frustrations, its best to just jump in the pit and let it all out....

Lessons Learned in '09 Chapter 8

2009-12-28T15:02:00.004-05:00

Hello - I hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas! Back to the series;

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Welcome to my new series titled Lessons Learned in 2009. This series is a serious look back at my life in 2009. I try not to get too personal on this blog but for this series I dug deep and I hope you enjoy it.

Chapter 8 - Friends

Friends. I love them. After ~~the toxic friend clean out of ’09~~ changing my perspective my whole idea of friendship changed too. This past year I’ve lost friends, made new friends and rekindled old friendships. I’ve learned how a friendship is made and how to make a friendship last. I’ve learned which friendships are worth saving and which friendships were never really friendships at all. I’ve learned when to share my opinions and give advice and when to keep my mouth shut and simply listen. I’ve learned what a friend truly is and more importantly, I’ve learned how to be a true friend. Learning to be a friend was the best gift of all; it is a gift that gives back. I am grateful for what this year has taught me about friendship. May God bless my friends in the year 2010 – I pray for happiness, health, prosperity and love. I love you all and I am grateful to have you in my life.

Click here to read Chapter 1 - Don't get too comfortable

Click here to read Chapter 2 - Perspective

Click here to read Chapter 3 - Weight loss

Click here to read Chapter 4 - Babies

Click here to read Chapter 5 - Death

Click here to read Chapter 6 - Family

Click here to read Chapter 7 - God

Merry Christmas

2009-12-25T06:30:00.002-05:00

Kodi in his Christmas Sweater

Happy Birthday Jesus and Merry Christmas to all!

Lessons Learned in '09 Chapter 7

2009-12-23T08:11:00.002-05:00

His big lesson for me this year was simple yet powerful; “I will provide”. This year I was blessed to see God’s provision first hand through my family. God has shown me that he can do great things through great people. Sometimes we can’t see it, sometimes we even doubt it but God always provides and it always happens…just…in…time. This lesson is very important to me as this year comes to a close. Right now we are on one income and as our bills pile up and Christmas gifts need to be purchased our faith is being tested. Do we crumble under the pressure or do we have faith that God will provide? Well if I’ve learned my lesson I know that…“He WILL provide”.

Up Next, Chapter 8 - Friends

Click here to read Chapter 1 - Don't get too comfortable

Click here to read Chapter 2 - Perspective

Click here to read Chapter 3 - Weight loss

Click here to read Chapter 4 - Babies

Click here to read Chapter 5 - Death

Click here to read Chapter 6 - Family

Lessons Learned in '09 Chapter 6

2009-12-22T07:51:00.004-05:00

Welcome to my new series titled Lessons Learned in 2009. This series is a serious look back at my life in 2009. I try not to get too personal on this blog but for this series I dug deep and I hope you enjoy it.

Chapter 6 - Family

Four words; You can’t pick ‘em.

Up Next, Chapter 7 - God

Click here to read Chapter 1 - Don't get too comfortable
Click here to read Chapter 2 - Perspective
Click here to read Chapter 3 - Weight loss
Click here to read Chapter 4 - Babies
Click here to read Chapter 5 - Death

Lessons Learned in '09 Chapter 5

2009-12-21T12:09:00.003-05:00

Welcome to my new series titled Lessons Learned in 2009. This series is a serious look back at my life in 2009. I try not to get too personal on this blog but for this series I dug deep and I hope you enjoy it.
Chapter 5 - Death

I had this post all written out and ready to go but after reading over it I just hit delete. I feel like I can't find the right words to say but I'm going to give it a try...its not going to be pretty or well written. I'm just going to be blunt and get it out there...

Death is two sided. On one side you have the sorrow, the grief and the pain. But there is another side. A side that is peaceful and comforting. Several years ago I lost my grandmother to cancer. Her death was hard to watch, it was slow and painful. The hurt was so deep in me, something I had never experienced before. One day, years later I was talking to my grandmother in heaven above and I realized that she never left my side. Yes, she left earth but she is still with me. I can talk to her, I can pray to her, I can feel her. I felt comfort for the first time since her death.

Earlier this year I lost my three year old cousin Gavin and although we are all still grieving, for the first time I am able to look ahead and see comfort on the horizon. I am not sure that you ever stop grieving someones death but I am sure that if you believe in God, you never really lose someone...they are with you forever, in heaven, watching over you.

Up Next, Chapter 6 - Family

Click here to read Chapter 1 - Don't get too comfortable
Click here to read Chapter 2 - Perspective
Click here to read Chapter 3 - Weight loss
Click here to read Chapter 4 - Babies

Lessons Learned in '09 Chapter 4

2009-12-18T08:53:00.002-05:00

Welcome to my new series titled Lessons Learned in 2009. This series is a serious look back at my life in 2009. I try not to get too personal on this blog but for this series I dug deep and I hope you enjoy it.

Chapter 4 - Babies

Oh I hate this topic. This year I learned how badly my husband wants children. I also learned that I’m not there yet. And even worse, I don’t know if I will. I’ll admit sometimes certain things make me crave to be a mother; knowing how badly my husband wants to be a father, seeing my best friend with her little girl, looking at my spare bedrooms and thinking the possibilities, walking through the stores and seeing all the material things I want to buy for a little one, thinking of my mother and father becoming grandparents and my brothers becoming uncles and just the smell of a newborn. Okay, that list is a little longer than I wanted it to be. But there are also things that make me feel the opposite about having a child; the lack of freedom to pack up and go, the amount of energy and lack of sleep required, walking through the stores and seeing the kids screaming “I WANT I WANT I WANT!” And all the questions that go through my head are endless; can we afford it, do I have what it takes, does my husband have what it takes, what if the baby is unhealthy? What if I cant? I am anxious to see what year 2010 brings in this department. Will it bring a newborn? Or will it take this topic off the table for good?

Up Next, Chapter 5 - Death

Click here to read Chapter 1 - Don't get too comfortable
Click here to read Chapter 2 - Perspective
Click here to read Chapter 3 - Weight loss

Lessons Learned in '09 Chapter 3

2009-12-17T07:48:00.004-05:00

I did not meet my weight loss goal this year. In the beginning of 2009 I was off to a great start and around March/April I was in reach of the finish line! I lost 11 or 12 pounds and felt great about myself. I was following the South Beach Diet and trying to work out a little here and there. I don’t recall the changing point or why I put the weight back on but the bottom line is that I got off track and never quite got back on. I've tried to restart the diet but I haven't succeeded at staying on it for very long. I am 1 pound shy of where I started in the beginning of the year. This is definitely very disappointing and I am reminded of my shortcomings every morning when I get dressed and every time I walk by a mirror. I'd like to say that I plan on starting to diet again after the new year but I'd probably be lying. The truth is - I'm stuck.

Up Next, Chapter 4 - Babies

Click here to read Chapter 1 - Don't get too comfortable

Click here to read Chapter 2 - Perspective

Lessons Learned in '09 Chapter 2

2009-12-16T07:49:00.003-05:00

Chapter 2 - Perspective

Changing your perspective can change your life. In early 2009 I made the decision to change my perspective. I was tired of people taking advantage of my friendship so I made the decision to clean those people out of my life. I purged everything that was holding me down in anyway and causing any ounce of stress or anxiety. This was hands down the best decision of the year. You see, there are many things in life that require attention and care such as a career, house, vehicle, pets, religion, marriage and other relationships. If something is pulling me down or taking my attention away from those important things in my life –they will begin to suffer because of it. Cut the stress, cut the drama, cut the friends and family that cause you to take any attention away from the truly important things in your life. So I prioritized and put things into perspective….it has been a breath of fresh air for my soul.

Up Next, Chapter 3 - Weight loss

Click here to read Chapter 1 - Don't get too comfortable

New Series; Lessons Learned '09

2009-12-15T10:29:00.007-05:00

I am starting a new series titled Lessons Learned in 2009. I have no idea how many chapters this series will include but I promise at least 7. This series is a serious look back at my life in 2009. I try not to get too personal on this blog but for this series I dug deep and I hope you enjoy it.

Lets start off with a short one;

Chapter 1 - Don’t get too comfortable

It is possible to have it all and it is possible to lose it all. The kicker is that when you are in the moment you don’t realize that you have it made. Yes, I have my job and I have my health and I have my ~~children~~ pets. But it’s human nature to dream bigger and crave more. It’s not until some of those things were taken away from me (a beloved pet, my husband job etc.) that I realized that having just enough is having it all. My lesson learned? Don’t get too comfortable.

Up Next, Chapter 2 - Perspective

My babies

2009-12-08T20:08:00.002-05:00

This is the closest they have ever been to one another without attacking...

Diversity

2009-12-08T07:48:00.003-05:00

My company prides itself as being named one of the Top 25 Organizational Diversity Councils in the U.S. That’s great; it’s great for the U.S., it’s great for my company and it’s great for the employees. It’s really great for me because I ~~am chained to my desk with said group of “diverse” people for 9 hours a day, 5 days a week~~ get to come to work and learn all about my co-workers and what makes them “diverse”.

And by “diverse” I mean;

The girl who simply loves herself so much that she has a mirror hanging in her cube right next to her monitor so that she can watch herself type.

The germ-a-phobic who ran out of the bathroom when I sneezed (into a frickin tissue btw) and uses 8oz of Purell a day. (I am assuming the woman upstairs who wears a mask to work because of swine flu would do the same thing)

The ~~man~~ woman who always has a 5 o’clock shadow.

The spazoid who runs from her cube to the copier and then full on sprints back to her cube with her head down knocking people over on the way because she just loves her job so much and she is so important and she has so much work to do and just loves her job so much….um yeah…

The WAY TMI person who shares stories of bowel movements, illnesses and things that make you go GOD DAMN I wish I didn’t hear that now I have to go bang my head against the keyboard in hopes of jarring that image from my memory.

The cashier in the café who flips her lid when you pay for lunch with a $20 bill because “OH MY GOD!!! I don’t have change to give you even though it’s my job and even though I know that the ATM across the hall doesn’t dispense anything less than a $20 bill. How could you pay with a $20 bill?!?!” (Thank god I am on her good side although I’m sure she probably rolls her eyes at me when I walk away just like she does to that asshole in front of me that used a $20 bill to pay for his lunch)

Gosh I love my diverse office! And if you’re from my diverse office and reading this…don’t worry this is not about you, you are perfectly normal, you have no quirks and everyone loves you.

What makes people “diverse” in your office?

Weekend in Review + Awards!

2009-12-07T07:50:00.006-05:00

Do you have your Christmas shopping done yet? How about started? I am about half way through and now I'm looking at the calender and realizing I only have less than three weeks and only one paycheck to finish...can you hear me screaming?!

This weekend my dog decided that he just wasn't going to behave this weekend - at all. He pooped on my carpet, chewed up a pair of undies, ran away from us outside and has just been acting like a nut. I don't know what his problem was but he was driving me crazy.

I got to spend some one-on-one time with my MIL yesterday which was pretty cool. We went out shopping for some new window treatments for her house. I was able to convince her to do something a little different and it ended up looking great and she loved them - *huge sigh!* We also stopped in Target and picked up this pretty piece by Simply Shabby Chic for her bathroom. The detail in it is beautiful and matches the mirror that my husband framed for her.

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Awards! Freddae over at Coffee, God and Me gave me The Circle of Friends Award!

5 Things I like to do (in no particular order)

Entertain friends and family. I love to host dinners and game nights its always so much fun!
Cooking and baking, especially for the holidays!
Scrapbooking...when I can find the time
Home Improvement. I love to spend time with my husband working on our home. And that includes decorating, we love to go shopping and finding the perfect pieces for our home!
Blogging...lately its been when I find the time but I am trying to be better at it and MAKE time.

Okay now I am going to pass the award onto 5 awesome bloggers. All you have to do is publish it on your blog, referring to the friend who passed it on. Then, share five things that you like to do. Lastly, pass it along to 5 friends!

Hayley at Everything in Between
Darby at The Ramblings of Me
Bridget at Yellaphant
Brian at Running for my Life (Brian just started his blog and I hope he keeps it going! - go over and say hi!)
Amy at Apples & Cheese, Please (I just started following Amy's blog - its about food and its awesome!)

Okay bloggers congrats on your awards, make sure you pick it up and pass it on!

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Thanksgiving Vacation Days 3, 4 and 5

2009-12-01T15:32:00.008-05:00

Okay, so I missed blogging about Thanksgiving Vacation Days 3, 4 and 5….but I was busy!

If you missed Day 1 and Day 2, here is a quick recap;

I caught a show in the city on Wednesday night;

(Automatic Fire @ the TLA on South Street, Phila)

Thursday (Turkey Day) was at my Moms house and it was wonderful. It was so relaxing with just my parents, brothers, my husband and I. There was no family drama or huge mess to clean up.

We decorated Mom's Christmas tree...one of them anyway

...ate a wonderful meal and spent time together as a family just relaxing. We went to bed rather early so that we could get up with the crazies (who am I kidding...we ARE the crazies!) to do some Black Friday shopping!

Friday started at 2:30 AM (better than last year…we started at midnight then) with a large cup of Wawa coffee and lots money to burn…well not so much the lots of money part. Anyway, we made our way through a few stores stopping for breakfast along the way. We made out pretty well and got done most of our Christmas shopping. Then around 10:00 AM we dropped the bags off at home, took a nap, woke up and had lunch (turkey day round # 2) and then went back out for MORE SHOPPING Y’ALL!!!! My best buy was an awesome set of bed sheets that were $89.99. I scored them for $14.99 + 15% off of that…you figure it out. I can’t tell you what I else I got cuz it’s for Christmas DUH!

Saturday I can’t even remember but I’m sure it was good.

Sunday was great because we did this…

(Thats our house all done up for Christmas!)

My Dad brought over a bucket truck to get the lights up top. That man is like a kid with a toy when it comes to using the bucket truck...any excuse he gets I tell ya!

That brings us to today…its back to work, with a sore back/neck and a cold thats turned into a sinus infection…I guess the fun had to end sometime.

How was your Thanksgiving vacation? Is your tree up yet?

Thanksgiving Vacation Day 2...Stuffed

2009-11-26T21:36:00.002-05:00

Stuffed, that about sums it all up! The turkey is kickin in right about now and I'm about to hit the sheets (got to get some rest for Black Friday shopping starting at 4AM!) but before I go to bed I wanted to say what I am most thankful for on this day of thanksgiving;

I am thankful for my family who supports one another and picks each other up when one is down. My family is the best thing in my life and not a day goes by that I don't think about how lucky I am to have them. I am blessed.

What are you most thankful for today?

You can read about Thanksgiving Vacation Day 1 here

Thanksgiving Vacation Day 1...Pies & Police Reports

2009-11-25T17:10:00.006-05:00

Today is day one of my FIVE day Thanksgiving vacation AKA Pie Day. Every year my Mom and I spend the day together in the kitchen baking pies and prepping for the big meal. This year we MAY have (and by MAY I mean most definitely) went a little overboard. Our list includes but is not limited to (the day isn't over yet!);

4 Pumpkin Pies
1 Cherry Pie with crumb topping
1 Peach Pie with crumb topping
1 Apple Cobbler (homemade biscuit topping)
2 Loaves Cranberry Bread
1 Loaf Pumpkin Bread
Stuffing
Green Bean Casserole

Did I mention all this is for only six people? And we haven't even gotten to the good part...

As Mom and I were baking this morning the phone rang and it was the police department from a local city asking about my brothers car. The police officer stated that it was found running on the side of the road at 4:30AM. It gave us a little scare but we were able to contact my brother who is away on business to find out that he was alright. Turns out that his car was stolen from his place of business last night and stripped to the frame. And by frame I mean this;

I guess old CRX's are in high demand.

Well that's all for now. I am leaving in a few to take my brothers into the city to experience South Street and see a rock show at the TLA.

See you all on Thanksgiving Vacation Day 2....

On this day, God wants you to know...

2009-11-20T21:30:00.005-05:00

Feeling drained, exhausted and like hell I left work and began my drive home. I had to stop by my friends house to pick something up for a project I was working on. To be honest I had been procrastinating for over a week about this project but I forced myself to drive a little out of my way and stop by their house.

My friends (we will call them Bob and Jane) were mentors to my husband and I as part of a requirement by the church before getting married. Bob and Jane were so cool and down to earth about relationships, religion and just about everything that we decided we couldn't let these people out of our life.

I stepped into Bob and Jane's house and Bob greeted me with a hug. "You look very nice, I love your new bangs" he said.

"Oh yeah right, I look awful!" I said.

I got what I needed for my project and as I was walking out the door Bob handed me a little slip of paper. "I read this and wanted you to have it" he said.

I said "Thanks" and slipped the piece of paper into my pocket.

Later that night I found the paper that was given to me and I read it. "Man, why I am so good at putting myself" I thought to myself.

The paper read this;

On this day, God wants you to know...that when people tell you nice things, stop shrugging them off as if they are nothing. The sincere compliments you receive are your jewels, - collect them in your heart, - they highlight the beauty of your being and empower you during challenging times. Never say "oh, its nothing" or shrug your shoulders when you hear a sincere compliment. Pause, breath it in, and really feel its meaning.

Wow. I find myself constantly doing that. A compliment is just an opportunity for me to dig at myself. Someone can say how nice I look and all I can think about is how FAT I look. And the person giving the compliment is left thinking...okay, that's not what I said or meant!

So I learned my lesson and now my message to all of you is just what that paper said...take compliments you receive to heart, collect them and cherish them. Don't dig at yourself, realize your self worth and beauty. You are worth it - God created you in his image!!!

Break

2009-11-09T10:50:00.001-05:00

I am taking a blogging break for a few weeks.

Warm Regards,

Heather

Good Deal - Great Cause

2009-11-02T08:29:00.005-05:00

This past week I have been emailing all my friends, family and coworkers to tell them about Gavin's House and the Spaghetti Dinner that we are having to help with the costs of the home. At the November 13th dinner we will be raffling off gift baskets and fun items to help raise additional money for Gavin's new home.

The first person to step up and help was my friend Lucie;

Lucie graciously offered up a basket of Mary Kay products for the raffle. In addition to the basket Lucie will donate 20% of all new orders to Gavin's House...and...give you a 20% discount on your order. So that's 20% for Gavin's House and 20% for you! You can look fabulous with Mary Kay and feel great about donating to a great cause. Please visit Lucie's website here by November 13th to place your order and use the word Gavin's House in the comments box.

For more information on Gavin and The Owens Family click here
For more information on Gavin's House and the benefit dinner click here

Thank you Lucie for helping Gavin's House!

The Road to a Friend's House is Never Long

2009-10-27T08:55:00.003-04:00

Isn't it great when you reunite with a friend that you haven't seen in years and it feels like a day never passed in between?

This is my goofball & me almost 10 years ago...

And 10 years later...

pretty toes and AC shows

2009-10-20T07:45:00.002-04:00

This past week I...

painted my nails and toenails
lost 3 lbs
got my hair styled and added some fresh new bangs
did some work at Gavin's house
relaxed and recharged myself for a busy end of month

This coming week I will...

be going to Atlantic City to do a little gambling with some friends
catching a concert (or 2?)
celebrating my brothers 15th birthday (a week early)
making last minute preparations for my Halloween party
adding a workout regimen to my diet & weight loss plan

And on a totally unrelated note...how bout them Phillies!?!?!?!

National Boss Day

2009-10-16T10:48:00.004-04:00

“I'm friends with everybody in this office. We're all best friends. I love everybody here. But sometimes your best friends start coming into work late and start having dentist appointments that aren't dentist appointments, and that is when it's nice to let them know that you could beat them up.” Michael Scott

I was transferred to a new team within my department a few months ago and I have to say that my new boss is pretty kick ass. I consider myself pretty lucky compared to other people in my department. Anyway today is National Boss Day - so Happy National Boss Day to my boss (whom I hope never finds this blog) and all the other boss's out there...maybe you could enjoy your day like Michael Scott...

" I enjoy having breakfast in bed. I like waking up to the smell of bacon, sue me. And since I don't have a butler, I have to do it myself. So, most nights before I go to bed, I will lay six strips of bacon out on my George Foreman grill. Then I go to sleep. When I wake up, I plug in the grill. I go back to sleep again. Then I wake up to the smell of crackling bacon. It is delicious, it's good for me, it's the perfect way to start the day. "

"Today I got up, I stepped on to the grill and it clamped on to my foot. That's it. I don't see what's so hard to believe about that." Michael Scott

Gavins House

2009-10-12T11:45:00.002-04:00

Something exciting is going on for Gavin! Please take a second and jump over to http://gavinshouse.blogspot.com/. Thanks!

Rearranged

2009-10-09T10:37:00.005-04:00

(photo taken at Hickory Run State Park, PA)

Unless you start doing something different, you are in for more of the same.
- Author Unknown

I read this quote online today and I felt it was great for a quick Friday post. Its a simple quote but very true. I have been struggling to loose weight this year and after reading this quote it kind of hit me - you need to stop complaining and do something different! This year I worked hard to change my attitude and rearrange my life priorities for the better. So why is it that I can't change my eating and exercise habits too?

I can.

I just have to do it.

bears, snakes, caterpillars and rocks

2009-10-05T12:51:00.012-04:00

I guess the rain rain go away chant worked because it only rained one night of our camping trip. The rest of the days were crisp, cool and beautiful...

(our campsite at Hickory Run State Park, PA)

I didn't see any bears unlike this woman.

And since I had no such luck trying to find one I had to settle on this really ferocious looking Caterpillar...

And this snake...

(the snake is either a black rat snake or eastern water snake - either way the snake is not poisonous)

And who doesn't love a field of freakin rocks?

(That is Boulder Field which was made by a glacier.)

All in all it was a good camping trip - no buggies and lots of good food. And who couldn't relax with a view like this?

Perfection.

See you Monday!

2009-10-01T08:01:00.003-04:00

Today is my Friday and that is one good reason to smile :-)

This weekend we are going camping at a state park in the Pocono's! This is only my second time camping and for the second time its supposed to rain so I need everyone to pray the rain stays away!!! Also, lets hope I remember to pack a pillow and toothbrush this time...

The rest of the month should be a good one...I always love October. We have lots of things planned like a moonlit corn maze, several live concerts, an awesome Halloween party and my brothers 15th birthday. And we are kicking it all off with a pizza party tonight!

Wow just looking over everything is making me tired...I thought after the summer I would get a break!

See you Monday!

Congratulations! It's a ?

2009-09-30T08:05:00.004-04:00

I have this awesome friend Dana who is (by my sloppy calculation) 6 months pregnant.

wow...that's it? seems like you have been prego forever Dana!!!

The thing is...she doesn't know what sex the baby is. Not by choice though, the little peanut is not showing the goods!

This spawned a conversation between hubs and I...would we find out? Hubs says YES! I say NO!

Would you find out?

Things to consider;

If you find out you can cut all baby name options in half. Its will be easier to decorate a nursery, pick a theme, color and register for baby items. I'm sure it will also help you mentally prepare for what challenges you will face with each sex. Such as your little girl dating or your little boy driving.

All in all I can see why so many people choose to find out but here is my take on keeping it a surprise; As the mother you have to carry around this baby for nine months (that's a long time!). Then there is the labor and at this point you have gone to hell and back...don't you want some kind of surprise at the end of it?

No...not that kind of a surprise...

I mean the overwhelming, heartwarming, lump in your throat, oh my god - I'm a parent of a little baby _______ surprise. One other thing to consider; the baby sleeps in a bassinet in your bedroom for the first few weeks so you have all that time to paint and put the finishing gender touches in your nursery. Also, there are some pretty cute gender neutral baby items out there.

So whats your choice? Do you find out or not?

Mito Week

2009-09-24T15:58:00.004-04:00

Just a reminder that its Mito Awareness Week.

Isn't he just the cutest?!?

Gavin is the son of my cousin Karen and her husband Adam. Gavin also has an awesome big sister Madison who just adores her little brother. Here is a little more about Gavin:

I have Mitochondrial Disease, am 100 % TPN dependent, struggle with autonomic dysfunction, am blood transfusion dependent, have bladder dysfunction, severe dextrose dependence and I struggle with chronic blood infections due to my failing bowels...

I ask you to participate in Mito Awareness Week. You can help by going to Gavin's website http://www.gavinowens.com/ for more info (and cute photos too!) about how you can help. Stop by Gavin's store and purchase some cool clothes or you can simply wear green and help spread the word about Mito.

GO GAVIN!!!

Craziness

2009-09-20T21:00:00.002-04:00

All I have to say is that when me and my family get together we start to get a little crazy...

...and this is me sober.

Jacob and his "fort"

2009-09-03T07:55:00.004-04:00

I don't have a green thumb at all. I don't mind to garden but I'm not good at it at all. I always joke that I can't even keep a fake plant alive. Here's why...

This is Jacob and his "fort". He insists on knocking the plant over and then lying under it.

I think he uses it to camouflage himself so that the dog doesn't go after him :D

My baby's growing up

2009-09-01T13:43:00.002-04:00

By baby I mean dog of course.

We have been testing Kodi lately to see if he is trust worthy enough to be left alone not crated.

He really had to earn our trust because when he was younger he had some major shitting all over the house issues when we weren't home....AKA...seperation anxiety.

So we started off just for an hour while we went grocery shopping and he was fine. Then we worked our way up to five hours...still no problems. Finally yesterday was the big day...we left him free all day while we were at work.

Success!

All three cats are still alive, no pee, no poop and no destruction to the house.

He was so excited when I walked through the door last night like he couldn't wait to tell me how good he was...so I grabbed the camera to take a photo and he smiled for me :D

What a good boy!

September 1st

2009-08-31T14:53:00.003-04:00

Tomorrow is September 1st....do you know what that means?

It means...

summer is over.

the morning air is a little more crisp.

its time to decorate with beautiful colors of fall.

and the best of all?

Pumpkin Spice Lattes are back.

What does September 1st mean to you?

Too Much Laundry!

2009-08-25T07:46:00.003-04:00

Over one week and no post!

Sorry...I've been under a pile of laundry!

With three people in my house covered in poison sumac I made sure that I washed every towel after every use and every clothing after every wear. It really adds up! But the work paid off because the sumac has dried up and is leaving our bodies.

Thank God!

I hate mother nature

2009-08-16T20:26:00.006-04:00

This weekend hubs, brother & I cleared some trees that fell on our property and neighbors property during a storm. How nice of us right?

Bad idea. very. very. bad.

Mother Nature sucks....

All three of us are covered in poison ivy & poison sumac. Covered.

I feel so bad for hubs...he has it between his fingers. Oh and he is allergic so his eyes are now starting to swell...by morning they should be swelled shut. On top of that we went to the pool today to help ease the itchiness and he ended up getting sun burnt. Now he is a nice shade of bright pink with shiny blisters and swollen eyes. Hubba Hubba!

We all just showered with TechNu and applied cortisone cream. Now we're gonna tape oven mitts on our hands and watch a movie. Goodnight!

***Update 8/18/2009***

Doc started me on steroids to bring down the swelling and ease the itchiness. Prednisone is the most gag inducing medication I have ever been on. I'm on a tapered dose starting with 6 a day....insert *dry heave* here please.

Love Buzz

2009-08-12T07:42:00.003-04:00

I'm pretty annoyed this morning and I really don't have anything to write. Instead I have a little piece of happiness to share.

listen here.

See? I'm happy already!

Weekend Plans

2009-08-07T07:33:00.007-04:00

Happy Friday & hells yeah, I only have a four hour work day today!

My plans? Well I am going over to mama dukes house after work to lay by the pool. Possibly convincing her to go see The Proposal with me?

I'm sorry but Ryan Reynolds naked - yes please!

Tomorrow hubs and I are taking little brother to Fuzzstock. We're pretty much gonna stand outside in the heat all day and watch some awesome bands and look at some talented art by Jared Polin and other artists. Oh yeah...its free!

If you are in the tri-state area - COME OUT!

What are your plans for the weekend?

My what sharp teeth you have!

2009-08-05T07:35:00.005-04:00

Has anyone been watching Shark Week?

They are doing a lot of shooting over in the SA waters {Cape Town} which is pretty cool.

{I was thinking of you Francois & Hayley! I also had my eye out for table top mountain! See what I've learned? :-)}

Apparently in the Bahamas they have this water slide that goes through a shark tank. You can actually see the sharks swimming around you. Yeah, I would pee, that is scary. I love sharks, they are so fascinating but I don't think I would ever want to get that up close and personal with them. Well...maybe after a few of those frozen Bahama drinks.

Have you ever gone swimming with the sharks or had an up close and personal experience with one?

Lessons Learned from Camping

2009-08-02T18:25:00.011-04:00

Well, I did it. I survived my first camping trip! Although it rained hard & often it was still a great time.

What did I learn?

Food cooked over a campfire is way better {and a lot easier to clean up}
Camping is absolutely exhausting but relaxing by the fire makes it well worth it
My mattress at home that I aways complain about....it isn't so bad anymore
Try and remember to pack a pillow...
...and a toothbrush
Old jeans and TShirts....glad I went with them
There is no way to water proof a tent
You WILL get wet & dirty no matter what
I can deal with the rain and dirt but I cannot deal with spiders
I could definitely do this again!

A Happy Camper

2009-07-31T07:53:00.005-04:00

So tonight I am heading out to the wilderness for my first camping trip. Yay! I have no idea what to expect....it seems a lot of people hate camping. But I figure you don't know unless you try it.

I'm looking forward to this weekend with my family, we always have a great time, laughing hysterically and just hanging out. Ohhhh....the best part? We're bringing Kodi bear! :D I am super excited to have him with us. I know he is gonna love hiking and being outside with everyone. He is a real people person dog with lots of energy. Just hope he doest fart in the tent....that could be deadly.

Packing has been an issue with me. Between working late and trying to clean...I've hardly packed. I refuse to come home to a messy house. So my pre-game is usually to clean everything. Do the laundry, dishes, wipe the counters, make the beds etc etc.

Oh and what to wear! I'm sitting in my closet arguing with myself... "its not a fashion show you don't need to bring that cute outfit" ... "but your gonna walk around in an old Tshirt, jeans and sneaks all weekend?" ... "your only gonna get dirty" .... "*gasp* dirty!?!" .

I cant decided!

Any camping advice?

Entrance Dance

2009-07-29T10:39:00.001-04:00

If this is how they walked down the aisle to say I DO then I wonder what the reception was like!?!

When The Music Stops

2009-07-21T18:15:00.009-04:00

I got this fun little thingy of facebook....play along...

*Put Your iTunes, winamp, mp3 player or whatever on SHUFFLE
*For each question, press the next button to get your answer (no cheating)
*You must write down song/artist even if it doesn't make sense
*Include any comments in parentheses

1. What do your friends say about you? "Astronomy" by Metallica

2. How would your coworkers describe you? "Addicted" by Saving Able

(I wonder what they would say I'm addicted to? ... coffee for sure)

3. How would you describe yourself? "2nd Childhood" by NAS
(A grown kid? ... maybe...)

4. What do you like in a romantic partner? "Things Done Changed" by The Notorious B.I.G.

5. How do you feel today? "Overburdened" by Disturbed
(Not really today --- going home in two hours! But any other day I would agree!)

6. What is your life's purpose? "Unconditionally" by Extreme

7. What is your motto? "Jesus Walks" by Kanye West
(Absolutely!)

8. What do you think about the most? "Low Rider" by Korn

9. What are you going to do on your next vacation? "What Goes Around" by NAS

10. What do you think of your first love/date? "Oh Boy" by Cam'ron
(Oh boooy ;))

11. What is your life story? "Utha Side" by Nelly

12. What did you do yesterday? "No Matter What" by T.I.

13. What do you think of when you see the person you like/love? "Feel No Shame" by Slipknot
(ummm....that depends)

14. What describes your wedding? "Got Ur Self A Gun" by NAS
(Okay, this is the third NAS song to pop up...I really only have 1 album...and NO, I didn't have a redneck wedding with guns!)

15. What will they play at your funeral? "Revolution Is My Name" by Pantera
(Sa-Weet!)

16. What is your obsession? "Photograph" by Def Leppard"

17. What is your biggest fear? "Orchids" by Stone Sour
(Actually Orchids are pretty :))

18. What is your biggest secret? "Live My Life (Leave Me Alone)" by Cam'ron

19. What is your biggest turn-on? "Simple Man" by Shinedown
(I guess you could say a "simple man" is a turn on...not the biggest though)

20. How do you describe your friends? "Like My Style" by 50 Cent
(Yes...we rule)

21. What would you do with a million dollars? "Turn My Swag On" by Souljaboy
(Hell yea! SWAG baby...)

22. What is your opinion of sex? "No Panties" by Trina
(Kinda hard to do with them on wouldn't ya say...)

23. What is your biggest regret? "Everything is Everything" by Lauren Hill

24. What would you rather be doing right now? "Momma Said Knock You Out" by LL Cool J
(Don't call it a come back...I've been here for years...)

25. What will you post this list as? "When The Music Stops" by Eminem
(Sounds appropriate)

Funny that the songs that showed up - I dont really listen to that much!

Your turn...show me whats on your iPod...do it as a new post and leave the link in the comments

Did you seriously just ask me that?

2009-07-21T12:41:00.003-04:00

I was reading Maxie's post today and it made me want to share a similar experience...

I was working with another company at the time and my position required me to be the sales beeotch. All the salesmen would walk in and ask me stupid technology questions and to do stuff like send out their mail. Almost everything short of ironing their whitey tightys.

Our company had just opened a second branch in New Jersey and promoted one of those sales reps to be the GENERAL MANAGER. This guys first day on the job as GM calls me up and asks me what this button is for;

Overpaid Idiot GM: Hello Heather, you know that floppy disk picture in Microsoft Word?

Me: Yeah....

Overpaid Idiot GM: What does that do?

Me: Did you seriously just ask me that?

GM folks...GM....

Okay, I know you all have some of these stories....share!!!

Picture Time

2009-07-15T21:11:00.001-04:00

I haven't tried this before so hopefully it works....you should be able to click here and view my photos from Ocean City, NJ.

Let me know if you can see them and the captions!

Coming Up

2009-07-14T07:36:00.004-04:00

I love summer, so many exciting things going on :)

Painting my first floor this week! Our first floor is one open area; the back wall will be our accent wall, painted Clary Sage and the two side walls will be painted some sort of cream color. You can check out my scene from Sherwin Williams here.

Camping. Never been and really excited to go for the first time!!! This includes hiking, campfires and some shopping at St. Pete's Village.

Dog & kid sitting. Well, not really....I get to have my little brother over for two weeks this summer! The first week is coming up towards the end of July. We are excited to be taking him to see an awesome concert and to just hang out. I'm sure a game of Texas Hold 'Em will take place at some point ;)

Purses!!! I'm co-hosting a purse party with my girlfriend. Can we say wine, junk food and Coach? yes...yes we can!

Vacation pictures coming soon!

bye for now

2009-07-08T23:04:00.003-04:00

Oh how I love my pets - they bring so much happiness!

We are packing up and heading to the shore for a much needed mini-vacation. Someone doesn't want us to leave or wants to come with...hehe. The best part is being able to spend it with my best friends Ryan & Mindy! It'll be nice to show them all the places we like to visit and where I spent my summers as a kid.

Ahhh...relaxation and fun in only...28 hours!

Life is Good!

2009-07-07T07:56:00.009-04:00

The 4th of July weekend was fabulous! I spent Friday morning with my awesome friend Mindy and her baby girl at the outlets shopping. We snagged some good sales...got these foaming hand soaps in Coconut Lime Verbena and Honeysuckle...

Also picked up two dresses for the baby, a seafood set and bras!...And of course some starbucks*.

Later that night hubs and I went bowling with my Mom & brother. Mama dukes won...of course! And hubs was pissed :) hehe....

We spent all day Saturday at my Mom’s house by the pool getting nice and pink. I don't care what the doctors say - some sunshine is good for you! For dinner we cooked up some crabs (that we caught) in gravy…it was delicious. Hubs did a few fireworks at night and we sat around the fire and played cards. It was really nice…that is what life is all about!

Sunday we watched the movie 7 Pounds….have you seen it?

If not, I really recommend it. I think I went through 7 pounds of tissues! But it was worth the watch.

*I recently tried the Strawberry Banana Vivanno....yuck! I didn't realize they were made with Protein & Fiber powder....until later that night....eww.

Enjoy the long weekend

2009-07-02T09:03:00.006-04:00

The sun is shining, the birds are singing and everyday is a holiday...don't believe me? Just try missing one...

Singing Chaffinch

All bets are off

2009-06-26T06:48:00.005-04:00

I am emotionally - a wreck. I went to be irritated and woke up angry.

I am really annoyed/bothered/disgusted by all the MJ comments. "Poor MJ", "So sad about MJ"....I'm not shocked, I knew it was coming; the celebrity tributes, the crazed fans etc etc.

But it bothers me and here's why; he was accused of molesting children! Does that not speak volumes to anyone else? I don't care if you are the king of pop, if you can walk on water or can turn things into gold with the touch of your finger --- when it comes to molesting children --- all bets are off.

The point was brought up to me that he was accused and not convicted. Well I have this to say to them...tell that to the poor child - the victim. At the very least... it is not appropriate for a grown man to have someone else's child in his bed. Is that not common sense? What kind of example are we setting for the kids? That its okay to get away with molestation if you have lots of money. And what kind of message are we sending to the victims of molestation?

I wish that MJ was held to the same standards as that pedophile that lives a street over from you. Everybody wants to burn that mans house down. But NO...not MJ...its okay if he does it. Sorry about what happened to you little boy but we really like MJ - so we are going to turn a blind eye to what happened.

I am so so saddened for the victim(s) and his children. I pray that those kids can find healing and peace in their lives...

I am hesitant about allowing reader comments on this post because this is obviously already a hot topic issue on FB. This will not be turned into an argument. You can either agree or disagree with me - I just needed an outlet to spit this all out. If you would like to leave a comment please do so but I will be monitoring them.

Some highlights from our mini-vaca;

2009-06-23T20:39:00.008-04:00

click on photos to enlarge

At the risk of getting eaten alive, we caught about 30 nice sized crabs. I like to use the 'line' technique; I tie a piece of disgustingly smelly rank chicken to a weight {actually hubs does that part} which is tied to a long string and lowered into the water. By keeping the line taught I can feel when a crab is on the line, then I slowly pull the line up inch by inch and use a net to scoop them up. If they are over 4 inches they are turned into dinner.

This time I had a pesky fish or eel that kept going after my line and tugging it so hard I thought I was going to go in the bay! I tried so hard to lure that son of a beotch up to the surface but I couldn't get it. At one point I set the line down and placed my coffee cup on the line - I turned around and saw my coffee cup inching its way down the dock! I wanted to get that little *#$% so bad!!!!

During a game of Rummikub I was boasting and said how "clever & witty" I am. Hubs said "more like annoying & shitty" yeah, he's sweet like that... oh and hearing hub's nan say 'fo sheezy was a real highlight

Despite the rain, wind and cold temperatures the ocean water was warm. Some of the kids and I went on the hunt for seashells. While we didn't find any starfish or conch shells, we did find a hermit crab that had just lost an epic battle to a seagull. Although he was still alive he was missing several limbs - poor fella

More highlights & pictures to come....

My Take

2009-06-23T07:07:00.003-04:00

Everyone is talking about it and today I am joining in too. After sitting through every episode of that damn show and then watching what unfolded last night - I am putting my opinion out there.

In case your from mars - I'm referring to Jon & Kate + 8

I was so disappointed last night watching the "big announcement". I was really holding out for some news that they were going to give marriage counseling a try and instead they are getting divorced.

I know a lot of people out there are Kate haters - I am not one of them. To be honest I would probably be the same way if I had eight kids in two age groups to take care of. I also think that its 10 years too late for Jon to decide that he wants to grow a backbone. Of course there were times watching the show that I saw Kate cross the line but I also saw a husband who, as my local radio show best said, was a limp noodle! Now its 10 years and 8 kids later - all that time of building up resentment towards his wife - now he wants to take a stand to her and turn & walk away? How about talking about it with your wife instead of blocking her out? COMMUNICATION! If you want to do whats best for your kids you would have tried marriage counseling. Instead you are talking about how you're only 38 and looking forward to life after Kate. I couldn't help but cry last night...I was so disappointed in Jon.

I'm also left wondering how they are going to tell the kids, all eight of those babies, that the promise they made to them has been broken...

*sigh*....

Thoughts, Opinions?

Itchy & Scratchy

2009-06-21T20:02:00.002-04:00

no no ... not The Simpson's...

We're back from the shore and to say we got eaten alive is an understatement --- I think this video clip from friends explains it all ---

Of course we don't have the chicken pox - we have bug bites - but you get the hint!!!

Where in the world...

2009-06-17T13:55:00.000-04:00

I'll be here for the next few days...

I dont have anything Furry for today's Furry Friday

2009-06-12T07:56:00.003-04:00

So yeah, wow...it has been a while since I've blogged! Feels good to be writing again.

Tonight we are doing dinner with friends and then heading to West Chester to see Automatic Fire & Fosterchild at The Note. I love The Note, it's owned by West Chester's own Bam Margera and the place has a very Gothic feel to it...it's mostly candlelit with deep red & purple paint and brick walls covered in tall drapes. The seating includes black leather couches with red & purple pillows and rustic wood tables. I think the drinks are pricey but it's definitely a chill place to watch a show.

If you get a moment check out the links above!

Have a great weekend...

Hellllloooooo

2009-06-02T02:15:00.004-04:00

I apologize for the lack of posting recently. It has been so busy around here and that's a good thing! There are a lot of posts running around in my head, hopefully I can find the time to write them down. But for now its 2 AM {I've been having back spasms all damn night} and I need to try to rest up for work in .... 5 hours ....

See you soon!

Heather

Furry Friday

2009-05-22T05:58:00.003-04:00

This is how I found my cat the other day...

He is always getting into something!

In other non-furry related news; if you haven't checked Gavin's site in a while you may want to now. Thanks to the Make-A-Wish Foundation he is at Disney chumming it with Mickey and the crew! Take a look by clicking here!

Have a wonderful long weekend everyone!

A Very Special Day

2009-05-18T12:16:00.037-04:00

Three years ago, on this day, I married my best friend...

My wedding was such a special day, I'd like to share some of my favorite memories and photos with you...(click on any photo to enlarge)

The setting was beautiful...click here to see the gardens

Jeff put together the centerpieces and created a beautiful candlelit reception...

And while I was nervously getting ready...

Jeff was sneaking some cake...Caught ya!

A few last minute photos....

And it was time to walk down the aisle...

Tears were shed...(oh no! I'm stuck with her forever!)

My grandfather, a pastor, did us the honor of officiating our ceremony...

With this ring... I thee wed...

You may now kiss your bride!!!...

Mr. & Mrs....For eternity.

I'd also like to share two songs that were played on our wedding day and have a special meaning to us...

Metallica - Nothing Else Matters (Cover by Staind)

Clint Black - Like The Rain

Jeff,

These past three years have been wonderful and chaotic all at the same time. Marriage was so much more work than we both expected but we have learned that the rewards of our efforts are far more greater. I'm so grateful to have you in my life. Thank you for all that you do for me, our house and our life together.

Happy Anniversary, I love you.

Heather

Insert something clever and witty here

2009-05-18T10:43:00.003-04:00

It's Monday and guess what....I'm NOT at work! I could keep saying that all day :-)

Just a short post today to say that I am working on something very special for Wednesday's post...stay tuned...

Heather

Furry Friday

2009-05-14T14:06:00.007-04:00

Ahhh, Friday! There is nothing better on a Friday morning than coming to work and realizing you have a two hour meeting first thing in the morning *yawn*! At least I have a three day weekend to look forward to!

Isn't my dog so damn cute!

We started shaving him and he looks so cute with his short hair!

And lastly I have this adorable video....

Happy Furry Friday, make it a great one!

Shore Time

2009-05-13T08:25:00.010-04:00

One great thing about living in PA (Pennsylvania pronounced pee-ay) is summers spent at the shore. If your not from around my area you probably have no idea what "going down to the shore" is...it means we're going to the beach in New Jersey! We just call it the shore as in shoreline. If you live in PA chances are that you know someone in your family or a friend who owns a shore house in Jersey. Hubs and I are lucky to both have grandparents who own property at the shore. This summer we have two long weekends planned at the shore; one at his grandparents and one at mine. Both shore houses are in Ocean City, NJ (my grandparents place is just outside).

Ocean City is where hubs and I have spent many summers ever since we were children. (Do you think we ever met before?...its a possibility!) It's a dry town (no alcohol can be purchased) and its very family oriented. I wouldn't have it any other way! It is so relaxing and peaceful. And only a 20 minute drive to Atlantic City if your in the mood to get into some trouble!

The past few years hubs and I have developed our own ritual of sorts and that includes...

Waking up early and going to the bay to see the sunrise...

Spending a relaxing morning on the dock with our coffee, camera and mother nature...

Going crabbing! We then take them back to the house to gut them and clean them and cook up some crabs and gravy (red sauce) over spaghetti...

And spending the afternoons driving to our favorite spots. We love to hit up the Cape May Zoo, the Seashell Museum and the boardwalk.

There is nothing better than a long walk on the beach to watch the sun go down and going to sleep with an ocean breeze blowing around. It is so relaxing and romantic.

I can't wait!!!

Where are your summer relaxation spots?

Werth & Bump

2009-05-13T07:46:00.004-04:00

Last night the Phillies won against the Dodgers! Hell yeah! Not only is that great news...but Jayson Werth stole FOUR bases! Including home plate...you can see it all happen by clicking right here.

And since its baseball time again, I though I would bump up this post for ya....

Have a laugh at my expense...

I was watching the Phillies game on Sunday and you know how they have the player names embroidered on the back of their shirts? Well, I saw a player with the last name BATBOY and I said…”Gee, that’s ironic his last name is batboy and he plays baseball” DUH!...

Tuesdays Gone

2009-05-12T08:17:00.004-04:00

If you haven't been watching this season of Dancing With The Stars then your really missing out! I think they have a great group of celebrities this year. The handsome Gilles Marini is by far my favorite - his dance last night was HOT! Wow, he can really shake his bum bum!

Ty Murray wasn't that great of a dancer last night but he happened to dance to one of my favorite songs, Tuesdays Gone. Of course Metallica's cover is much better :-) Take a listen...

So who's do you think is going to win it???

Back to work

2009-05-11T08:11:00.004-04:00

It's the same scenario every Sunday night; Hubs and I just get into bed and he says "Well, its back to work tomorrow". Ughhhh...WHYYYY do you have to remind me? lol....can you tell I hate mornings - especially ones that require getting up for work!

Well, despite the fact that its back to work, we had a great weekend! Saturday night we put together a last minute bonfire party at our place. We invited our neighborhood and friends to come out back and enjoy the warm fire and drinks. It was really a great time, we have such an awesome community and wonderful neighbors. I'm looking forward to a long summer with lots of get-togethers, good food and good times!

Sunday was equally as great. It's always nice to show Mom some appreciation. {I just wish my dog would shown me some appreciation! He peed on the bed last night - the little shit!} At any rate - this year we brought a nice meal to each of our mothers. We had a nice salad with fresh chicken, soup, fresh bread and warm brownies. For dinner it was baked Ziti with my homemade meat sauce, bread and dessert - yum! I know our moms appreciated those extra pounds :-)

So how was your weekend? What trouble did you get into?

Furry Friday

2009-05-07T19:32:00.004-04:00

Happy Furry Friday! I hope you have a wonderful day and enjoy the coming weekend!

Fruits of my labor

2009-05-07T19:13:00.009-04:00

So this is what I worked on last weekend while hubs was away...

Its Clary Sage from Sherwin Williams and I love it!

Of course I had to have hubs do the top few inches because even on a stool I'm too short!

Oops, a few spots on the trim to touch up though!

That's a reflection of the mirror on the wall :)

I think it came out great! Eventually, when money allows, I have plans for this bathroom to be "Zen" and relaxing. I'd like to put in either black faux wood blinds or a dark bamboo shades. I'd also like to replace the plain mirror with something framed and hang some nature pictures, but for now I'm pretty happy the way it is!

Weekend Recap

2009-05-04T11:35:00.006-04:00

I am taking a page from Being Brazen today because I thought my post would be best done in a form of Things I've Learned this weekend!

I am really uber pathetic! My husband was gone for 48 hours and I nearly died from missing him so much!
Stretching is probably a good thing to do before painting
And Ironing 5 sets of curtains after painting is never a good idea - ever
Watching BRAVO (Real Housewives, Make me a Supermodel and Millionaire Matchmaker)on TV all day makes you a little dumber than before
I can survive solely on Sugarfree Fudgesicles, coffee and Jello
My dog can get along with the cats when/if he wants to
I love my home, being a homeowner and all the stress, love and happiness it brings
Going to bed at 7:30 is awesome after an exhausting weekend!!!

Furry Friday

2009-05-01T09:06:00.004-04:00

I would love to post this funny video for Furry Friday but blogger its not working for some reason. So that one will have to be for another time.

I have this video for you instead...enjoy!

They've Found The Source!!!

2009-04-30T14:57:00.001-04:00

Hyundai incentive or insult?

2009-04-28T11:23:00.005-04:00

Okay let’s look at the facts; if you loose your job and can’t afford your car anymore and decide to turn it in, (called a voluntary repossession) it could still end up costing you in addition to a huge negative impact on your credit that could haunt you for years.

However, with that being said does anyone still really think that the fact that Hyundai is offering to repossess your car with no negative impact if you loose your job as an incentive to buy?

Sounds to me like its more insult to injury! What do you think?

Standing in my own way

2009-04-28T09:25:00.004-04:00

I'd like to share the lyrics to this song with you...

Project 86
"Me Against Me"

I will not forget the day when the sides were chosen

Me against me against...me

Clothing so drenched with sweat and the teeth they were clenched

Who can I trust when I...

Grabbed hold my enemy's neck and choked 'till he ceased

Blistered with disbelief I awake dead

And when I awoke I couldn't believe it was me

All the time it was me

So many times we smile in pride

Putting such faith in what we've accomplished

But minutes ago we were (minutes ago we were)

Slitting our wrists, running for sympathy

WOW! What a realization - all the time it was ME!

How many times do we stand in our own way of getting things accomplished? Struggling and fighting, whining and complaining…

I know that I’ve been stubborn to come to a compromise in my relationship. I’ve procrastinated at work, I’ve made excuses for my mistakes and pushed blame onto God. By doing all of those things I am standing in my own way of success and happiness.

One thing I’ve learned is that sometimes you need to take a step aside to allow yourselves to move forward…

Furry Friday

2009-04-23T10:26:00.004-04:00

I'm thinking about starting a new theme for Friday - Furry Friday! I have so many cute photos and videos that I can share with you.

Here is the first one - it was a video that I received through email - I can't get the flippin' pritner to work!

Enjoy!

"Victim of Recession"

2009-04-23T09:59:00.002-04:00

This week my community got the news that our builder has packed up shop and left town. The building in our development has been stopped - leaving unfinished houses, unfinished roads and a lot of mess. The sales office is all closed up and the phones are shut off. The electric company is leaving bills on the empty houses and lawn services hasnt yet to be seen.

Hubs and I are very lucky to have only a few issues - other people in our community have much worse problems. One couple put $5,000 down on a house that they don't know if they are getting! There is nobody to contact and no help available. The mortgage company doesn't even know!

So what does a community do in this situation? Call 6ABC News! Check us out here. You can see a short clip of us in the beginning standing around chatting. They asked to interview me but I got a little anxiety and said no.

Hopefully our community can come together and quickly assemble a Home Owners Association. Until then we will have to get the scissors out and start cutting our grass!

What About Me?

2009-04-21T08:36:00.008-04:00

I hate writing About Me's. It's impossible to capture the essence of Heather in only a few short sentences. Okay, the whole essence thing is a little over dramatic but do you catch my drift? How does one come up with something original, catchy and short?

I've been lurking around the blogoshpere and I have found that there are three main types of About Me's...

On a side note - 80% of About Me's reference coffee. Okay I made up that figure, but that's common don't you agree? A lot of people encourage you to "grab a cup of coffee and enjoy". Is reading blogs enhanced by coffee somehow?

Continuing on...

1.) Catchy One Liners - These are for bloggers with blogs that actually serve a purpose and have a direct point. Such as religion, art, philosophy etc. etc.

This wouldn't work for me because my blog serves almost no purpose what-so-ever! I am all over the map and you never know what your gonna get when you come here. And also because I am not clever enough to come up with a cool catch phrase like my friend David.

2.) Generic Yadda Yaddas - I know you've seen it - you may even be a culprit of it. It goes like this..."I'm a 20something blogger trying make sense out of this crazy life...yadda, yaada, yadda...

Okay well aren't we all 20somethings trying to make sense out of yadaa, yadda, yadda...Even though I myself have been guilty of being generic yadda yadda'er, I just cant settle for this...

3.) The never ending List - This blogger creates a list of things they like or dislike to describe themselves. I feel this often has a negative effect on a blogger - to be honest the long list of randomness kind of makes you look Schizophrenic. Sorry.

The Schizophrenia would especially apply to me because my lists of likes and dislikes are so different from each other. Example = I love mosh pits and long walks on the beach. See?

So I had to ask myself, how do I avoid looking like a 20something with Schizophrenia all hoped up on coffee? (I know, I know...I digress...)

Given the fact that I'm all over the map and have some many different likes and dislikes and there is no written plan for this blog, I came up with this - I just wanna be heard. That's it! It's so simple, that's why I blog and I think that's all you need to know about me. Period.

How did you come up with your About Me and whats your style?

Outta Here!!! Remembering Harry Kalas

2009-04-16T14:46:00.005-04:00

Legendary Hall of Fame broadcaster Harry Kalas died on Monday after collapsing in the broadcasting booth before the Phillie's-Nationals game. He was a young 73.

For those who don't know - Harry Kalas was the voice of the Philadelphia Phillies. He's best known for his phrase "That ball is OUTTA HERE!!!".

The Phillies will be wearing a HK patch on their jerseys this season - close to the heart.

You should see me...

2009-04-15T17:41:00.002-04:00

...I am rocking the coolest cane ever...it is pink! I asked for one with flames on it like House has - but they were all out.

I had to go back to the doctors today because I woke up with a lot of swelling in my leg. Seriously, it kinda creeped me out. It looks like I have a giant marsh mellow leg and tiny sausages for toes. The doc said everything is in check and I should just rest up, so I came home and took a nap with Jacob!

Other than the swelling my leg looks really good, its healing well. My arm hurts more from the tetanus shot than my leg does!

Hopefully I'll be back up in no time!

Happy Birthday Mom

2009-04-14T08:27:00.006-04:00

Mom,

Happy Happy Birthday!!!

You are simply the best, I hope your day is delightful and filled with smiles even though you are working a long day...

I love you.

Heather

ER & Cold Ham (warning - graphic content)

2009-04-13T12:57:00.005-04:00

warning - graphic content

Whats the Easter holiday without a trip to the ER?

A boring one!

So I decided to give the docs something to do...

I was coming downstairs to put the finishing touches on my green bean casserole when I missed the last step and landed right on a nail in a tack strip that goes between the carpeting and kitchen floors.

I - very calmly - had my panicking husband get me the phone, gauze and an ace bandage. I wrapped myself up tight, called the family to let them know I'm going to the ER and had my husband drive me there. That's when is started hurting...

It only took a few stitches and a tetanus shot and I was on my way. The worst part was missing my family's hot Easter dinner :( My green bean casserole was ruined too...

I jokingly told the doctors - "I don't know why this happened - I went to church this morning! AND...I sang too..." However, my doc didn't seem to find it very funny. There were about 3 other clumsy people there because of falls too...its like God just shook the rug and watched us all fall like dominoes! A great way to celebrate his Resurrection huh?! Luckily I have a sense of humor!

I'm also lucky to have a great husband. Despite the fact that I am the butt of his jokes - he came home from work to take care of me. He even got me this cool pink cane that I can hobble around on. He got me coffee, made me breakfast and lunch and is just being an awesome care taker. I love him!

Anybody have any "fall" stories of their own? Do tell - It will make me feel better!

Oh yea - one other thing - I think it looks like an umbrella - dont you? Thats gonna be one cool scar!

Happy Easter

2009-04-12T13:36:00.000-04:00

Dreaming

2009-04-08T12:49:00.009-04:00

Have you ever wondered what your dreams or nightmares mean? Are they predicting something? What is going on in your mind while your sleeping?

I have had this reoccurring nightmare throughout my life. It started as a teenager and has continued to this very day. It wakes me up shaking and screaming inside but I am unable to physically scream, like I'm paralyzed.

It is always about a tornado. I am always at my parents house where there is acres upon acres of flat land and open sky. I look out the window and see this giant tornado coming right for the house. I go to the basement to hide. But no place is safe, I keep moving around from hiding spot to hiding spot but for some reason I cant stay in that spot. Or I am running from it outside and there is no end. I keep running - the tornado keeps following me. Sometimes I am running around frantically trying to get to my husband. He is either at our house and I cant get to him or I cant find him. Every attempt to find him fails - I try to dial on the phone but I cant remember the number etc. etc. Eventually I wake up scared to death.

Here is what I found out about this nightmare and its meaning;

You're most likely feeling overwhelmed by an endless to-do list, mounting responsibilities or a constant stream of bad news. If you're trying to save others, it may be because you feel responsible for their misfortune in some way, or feel the need to fix problems that aren't really yours. Until cloning is an option, prioritize: Before bed, make a to-do list and pick one thing you're going to focus on the next day; the rest will have to wait.

Arthur Nezu, Ph.D., professor of psychology at Drexel University in Philadelphia advises spending 15 minutes with your list coming up with alternate ways of crossing off the tasks. Can you send out the laundry and order a gift online instead of hitting the mall? By delegating and making small compromises, you'll be able to focus on the task at hand rather than what's waiting in the wings.

After reading this it makes complete sense. I can completely relate this to my personality and my controlling ways. I am a very organized person, I like everything to be done and done right. This includes taking care of my husband. I do our bills and budgeting and often take care of any issues that come up. Lately I have been a bit better about delegating tasks to him - although sometimes this ends up giving me a headache anyway b/c somethings are better off done by me.
But I digress - I can be better about. I am just glad to have gotten an answer to my nightmare!

Do you have any reoccurring dreams or nightmares? Please share!

Frustrated.

2009-04-08T09:03:00.003-04:00

My only wish was to go to bed early and get a good nights sleep...

I was woken up at 3 am.
I tossed and turned until 6am.
I was late to work.
I did my makeup in the car.
I have 10 million issues to follow up on at work.
My husband is PMS'ing.
And last but not least - the dog ate cat poop.

Oh. AND the Phillie's lost.

Can I get a do over please?

What is frustrating you today? Please share.

Oh my God...

2009-04-06T18:48:00.003-04:00

Tonight hubs and I celebrated our weight loss by doing something that we totally shouldn't of done....

We...

...I am trying to build suspense...

...Ordered Pizza.

Yes that's right; Hot, Cheesy, Brick Oven Pizza. The kind you have to fold in half to eat. The kind that leaves your face saucy and greasy.

And I am NOT ashamed people!

It was the best damn pizza I have had in months.

Now I am going to go lay on the couch with my pants unbuttoned and wallow in my gluttony.

*Good Night!*

Our New Girls

2009-04-01T20:47:00.003-04:00

Meet our new girls! We have adopted two young adult girls from a very nice family who had to give them up due to allergies in their little one. Right now the cats are still very scared because of the move, however they are very lovable and are coming around more and more each day.

Our boy cat Jacob is unsure of them - he is trying to make sure that HE is still the ruler of the house by begging for attention whenever we are around. Our hopes are that in a few weeks him and the girls will be playmates.

Our puppy Kodi - well, he just wants to play!

Here are some photos I took of them...

Isis - 3 years old {an ancient Egyptian Goddess of motherhood and fertility}

She is very much lovable, wanting to be pet but not held. She will rub up against your hand and purr but will not come any closer. She has moved up from under the basement steps to underneath our bed where she is staying put! She is really bonding with hubs, I can tell this is going to be his little girl.

Cleopatra - 2 years old {an Egyptian Pharaoh & Goddess of wisdom. Her patron goddess was Isis.}

Cleo for short - this little girl is the most timid, docile cat. I just love her. She is so tiny, you can just pick her up and put her on your lap where she will stay until you move her. She is not bothered by Kodi or Jacob. I think she is a Siamese and tabby mix, possibly the runt. She has a black tail, ears and nose and blue eyes of a Siamese however her body color, size and longer coat look tabby. She has also made her way from the basement to underneath our bed.

Both girls are using the litter box as well.

Hubs and I are so happy to have these two wonderful additions in our house and in time I think they will be happy too...

Naive

2009-04-01T10:01:00.009-04:00

***please note - this is not directed or about one person. These are just general thoughts and feelings that I have. Thank you!

I've noticed some things about myself lately and it has triggered a lot of thinking - here it is;

I look past all of the bad things and I see the best in every situation.
I see past the lies that have been told and I forgive.
I don't judge or speculate and I always give the benefit of the doubt.
I trust in what is told and find no reason to doubt

But are these good quality's to have?

I am not so sure. I sometimes think that I am not looking past the bad things - I am just making excuses for that person. I think that maybe I am not seeing past lies and giving people the benefit - I am just convincing myself that people always have good intentions.

This often gets me into trouble. Where is the line between being a good Christian person and being naive?

Even though I know all this - I can't seem to change. I continue to make myself believe that people are good and real and that humanity exists in everyone...why is that?

Is it time to stop being so disillusioned?

Lucky In Love Continued...

2009-04-01T07:59:00.004-04:00

Why am I so lucky?

Because I have an amazing husband who gave me the best birthday I could have asked for. This man went through weeks of planning and preparing to throw me a surprise birthday party!!!

I almost feel bad because I was giving him a real hard time this past week. I couldn't understand why he wouldn't give me my gift on Wednesday (my actual birth date)! He had me believing that something had to be installed in the house - I was way off!

So on Saturday he took me out and treated me to a wonderful dinner. I stuffed myself with clams, crab and wine - delicious! When we got back to the house I didn't want to go in - I knew my gift was there to be opened but I was afraid I wasn't going to like it! He had me totally thrown off :) I opened the door and SURPRISE, there were my friends and family in my house!

I was so embarrassed. I think I turned around and hit him! The best part? ... Hubs got in contact with a good friend from school, Gareth. {you may remember him from this post}. It had been six years since I have seen Gareth - and there he was in my living room!

Hubs did a fantastic job - from the guests to the decorations and the food. Everything was just perfect! I truly love him

Lucky In Love

2009-03-29T15:00:00.001-04:00

Just want to say that I love my husband. More to come...

My Birthday

2009-03-27T07:40:00.006-04:00

Wednesday was my Birthday and I would like to share with you how awesome my family is - I mean really they make me laugh, I couldnt ask for anything better!

Dad -
I get an email - "Happy Birthday, you make me feel old when I tell the people I work with I have a daughter the same age as them...enjoy your day"

Mom -
I get a phone call - she sings Happy Birthday to me every year :)

18 yr old Brother -
I get a voice mail - "Heather, Happy Birthday and tell your husband he's gay"

14 yr old Brother -
The phone rings -
"Hello"
"Hey" ... "Happy Birthday"
"Thanks! That was really sweet of you to call"
"Mom made me"

They are the best :)

Rita's

2009-03-20T07:56:00.005-04:00

Hayley - I wanted to answer your question about Rita's and I thought it would be best done in a post. So this for my SA readers who have never heard of Rita's...

Ice, Custard and Happiness = Rita's

That's it! Rita's sells Italian Water Ice, Frozen Custard, Misto Shakes and Gelatis. Its a great place to go in the summer for an ice cold treat. My favorite is a Ritaccino which is a mixture of coffee and frozen custard - yummy!

Rita's celebrates the first day of spring (and the warmer weather) by giving away free Italian water ice to every customer!

Sounds good right! Do you have a place similar to Rita's and what's your favorite frozen treat?

Kodi turns 1 today!

2009-03-19T19:22:00.002-04:00

We took Kodi to the wonderful store we got him from - he visited his old girlfriends and got a GIANT cookie to take home. And a squeaky toy of course! Happy Birthday Kodi!

Good morning,

2009-03-19T07:59:00.004-04:00

I hope you are having a good week so far...it's almost the weekend! I just wanted to give some updates to you all today -

My Grandmother - She is in a wonderful rehab hospital where she is working hard to walk and do simple everyday things again. She has a few more weeks there and then should be discharged home. Some things to pray for are - that she regains feeling in the lower half of her body and that her spinal cord makes a full recovery.

Gavin - Gavin was discharged yesterday! Please keep an eye on his site for updates.

South Beach Diet - Day 9 = 7 lbs lost. This diet is quickly growing on me now that I have overcome the initial shock of it :) Come Monday I will begin Phase 2 of the diet - Hooray!

Zoe - We still miss him so much, its not the same without him at home. Thank you to everyone for you wonderful comments.

Kodi - Happy 1st Birthday! :) We are taking him to get a special doggy treat tonight!

Tomorrow - Is the first day of spring...that means FREE RITAS! I am heading out to get some sugar free Ritas!!! A little reward for me and hubs...much deserved if you ask me.

Dear Zoe

2009-03-15T10:52:00.012-04:00

Last night we had to put our dear Zoe down to sleep. There was nothing we could do to help him, he was in so much pain. I felt so bad for him, my heart just aches. I miss him so much, he was part of our family. It seems so surreal today - did that really happen?

I have never seen my husband so torn and upset, Zoe was his baby for sure. Here is a little story about Zoe and how he became apart of us.

Zoe - I love you little guy and we miss you already! Jacob is searching all over the house for you, I can tell he is sad too. I'm so sorry we couldn't help you - you were only 3! I pray that you are resting peacefully now. Dr Shwab was so kind and did everything he could, he gave us your paw prints set in clay and we will cherish it and every memory of you always. I'm so so so sorry Zoe. WE LOVE YOU!

everything happens for a reason

2009-03-13T13:04:00.002-04:00

I know you have heard the saying - everything happens for a reason. Well that rings so true for me today. Unfortunately hubs got laid off work. But...it is only a temporary two week layoff. The downside is that hubs drew the shortest straw and he goes first starting Monday. Hopefully his turn will not come again.

After hearing this news I opened up our finances to re-evaluate. As it turns out, I made a double car payment in January and didn't know it! So we have no car payment due until next month. All this time since January we have been tight on money and saving as much as we could and this we didn't even need to! But I'm so glad I did because now in a time of layoffs we can get by!

Praise God!!!

Day 5 SBDiet - Weigh In

2009-03-13T08:16:00.003-04:00

Happy Friday! This morning I weighed in and my results? ... 2.5 lbs lost! I cannot believe it! I know 2.5 lbs. is not a lot but after struggling to with weight these past few years, I never thought it would happen. So really 2.5 lbs. is A LOT.

Growing up I was always skinny and fit without trying. I had long legs and dressed to show it off! But as soon as I got into my twenties my body changed drastically. I got my "woman's body" and the change really threw me off, I gained a large amount of weight.

I guess I'm just mad at myself for waiting so long to really do something about it. Now that I'm seeing a small amount of progress I feel like I can really go a long way and get my body back! I am going to meet with the trainer at my gym to come up with an exercise program that works with the diet I'm on.

Here are some more things I've noticed about the SBDiet

I'm getting really sick of eggs - scrambled every morning for breakfast and hard boiled everyday for a snack...no more eggs please!
The diet is costly! Our grocery bill - two people - one week - on the SBDiet cost $113. I guess this is because we are cutting out all the cheap food like pasta, potatoes and bread!
I really miss fruit.
Even though you are encouraged to eat until your satisfied, I always feel hungry after my meals.
I really look forward to getting on the scale each morning. I literally spring out of bed and dash to the bathroom! Its like Christmas morning :)
I feel I have a better attitude and more sass!

And a great thanks to you for reading my blog. This is all new to me and I writing it out really helps. So thanks for being supportive and sticking with me while I blog about it!

- Heather

Day Three

2009-03-11T15:19:00.005-04:00

Today has been a hard day. It's only day three of the diet. Although I have not cheated...I have been tempted. Damn you skittles and Hershey kisses...damn you chocolate chip cookies!!!

Last night Hubs and I were watching Everybody Loves Raymond on TV and Ray was eating a bowl of Captain Crunch. Immediately hubs and I looked at each other, salivated and said mmmm that looks soooo good! The funny part is - neither of us even like Captain Crunch cereal!

Totally unrelated to the diet - I was asked to work on a special project at work, to pretty much take something over and come up with ways to improve or add to it. I was so happy to be asked to do this because I am really really pushing for a promotion right now. My goal was to have the promotion by March. I don't know if that's going to happen with the economy right now but that's not stopping me. Anyway, I handed in a my presentation of my ideas this morning. I am so anxious to get some feedback! All morning until lunch the managers were in a meeting so I didn't hear anything. Its now 3:30 and still no word...its driving me nuts! Gimme something people!!!

Ahh, okay. I'm going to settle down and think about the yummy salad that's at home waiting for me.

SouthBeachDiet

2009-03-10T14:14:00.003-04:00

I'm trying it. I figure why not, the exercising and slim fast bars just aren't cutting it. I haven't gained any but I haven't lost too much either. For those who don't know; the SBD is a no carb/no sugar diet, for two weeks straight. After the third week you can add in small amounts of whole wheat grains. And you just follow it through until you have reached the desired amount of weight loss. Most people loose between 8 to 13 pounds very quickly.

So it's day two of my SBD and here is what I have to say about it so far;

You have to be very creative when it comes to meal planning. In order to prep for the diet hubs and I either ate or threw away all pastas, breads and fruits in the house
Grocery shopping is challenging. Don't even think about walking down the snack isle...there is nothing there that you can eat.
If you buy the SBD bars - make sure you read them...you aren't supposed to eat them until week 3. Oops!
I like the fact that there is no calorie counting and that you are encourage to eat until you are satisfied.
The diet is forcing me to try new meal combinations & food that I haven't tired before.
Last night I had second helpings of carrots. {wow. never thought I'd say that!}
It's making me very thirsty!!!! I have drank about 5 glasses of water so far today!

Have you tried the SBD before? What are your thoughts, did you like it or not? Did you loose weight and how much?

Blog Makeover {sorta}

2009-03-10T08:37:00.005-04:00

I am trying to give my blog a face lift {the cheap way}
Does anyone know how to make a three column blog?
When I do it by editing the HTML, my left column ends up at the bottom of my blog.
It would be great if I could find a copy/paste type code for it.
Any suggestions or helpful websites?

Thanks!

Heather

From my Inbox

2009-03-06T08:01:00.004-05:00

You all know how much I love music...all music. Well hubs is not the same way, he cannot stand some genres at all, especially - Reggae. Well I discovered an awesome reggae/punk/heavy metal band called Skindred. He loathes Skindred...but sometimes I catch him singing or humming one of their tunes and then this morning I got this email -

congratulations!!! thank you hunny...I'm officially a Skindred FAN! I listened to trouble 10 times in a row this morning and figured out how to play most of the song on guitar! now i can't wait to get home a break out the axe and try it out!

My reply - OMG…you are too much. And that’s why I love you.

Here is Trouble by Skindred -